And Now for Something Completely Different

It has been a while since I last wrote but I have been busy! Now that I have established a routine of sorts for day-to-day life in London and that my major moving expenses are done, I have finally had time to travel and have some fun.

Before I get into the travel, a bit of advice: there are many meetup groups and Facebook groups (Canadians in London, BritBound) aimed at Canadians in London looking to meet new people. Many of these revolve around specific interests (art galleries, sports, foodies, etc.) but there are more general ones like the London Canadian Expats group. I have attended a few of this group's events where over 100 Canadians show up to watch hockey games, have a drink or more recently, to celebrate the May 2-4 long weekend. This event was great as only Canadian music was played, Canadian drinks were imported (Clamato for Caesars and Sleeman's beer) and most importantly: poutine was served (with real cheese curds!). It's always nice to meet other Canadians when you've been away from home for a while and this was a really fun night. I really recommend joining these gropus and making the effort to attend a few events when moving to London. Here's a picture of my perfect Canadian meal:

Plug: The Poutinerie was authentic and delicious and can be found at London's Brick Lane Market every Sunday.

Now for my travel! My first trip since moving to London was to Cardiff, Wales. Before going to Cardiff I was warned not to bother as it's a rough and depressing place. I ignored that advice and I'm so glad I did! A friendly taxi driver in Cardiff explained that it used to be a rough city about 20 years ago but that a lot of work has gone into changing its image and vibe. I was really impressed by Cardiff (it helps that the weather was in the 20s and sunny!) but it is a lovely City with lots to offer! Here are a few of the places I visited and recommend:

1.  Doctor Who Experience 

Don't forget to try to find the secret entrance to Torchwood at Ronald Dahl Place (fellow Doctor Who/Torchwood geeks will know what I'm talking about here)!

2.  Cardiff Harbour

You can take a water taxi to the City Centre to/from here which is more enjoyable
that a real taxi, bus or walking. There are great restaurants, pubs and shops along the quay here. There was also, very randomly, a Royal Navy ship docked open to the public while I was there so I took some time to visit:

 3.  Cardiff Castle

Beautiful old castle (those who know me know that I am slightly obsessed with castles...so this was a mandatory stop)

 

Other things worth noting in Cardiff are the high street (across from Cardiff Castle) which has lots of restaurants, pubs and shops, including covered arcades that are quite charming:

This is also a good place to treat yourself to a Welsh Cake which was a very delicious and happy discovery. They are kind of like a soft shortbread cookie with raisins and sugar...more delicious than they sound - especially if you can find them freshly baked and still warm! Excuse my while I wipe the drool from my mouth...

While this short trip to Cardiff for a very affordable £6 bus ticket (coaches here are MUCH better than the Greyhound busses we have back home) was a great weekend getaway, I am looking forward to upcoming trips to Dublin, Paris, Munich and Edinburgh over the next few months. 

Stay tuned for more tales from the land of tea and crumpets - and abroad! As usual, I end with a quote; this one is aimed at those who told me not to bother visiting Cardiff:

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

 Mark Twain

My adventure so far...in pictures!

Since I last wrote, I have welcomed my first visitors from Canada (my aunt and uncle on their way back from visiting Belgium!) and I have been visiting a few local attractions. Here are a few of my favourite pictures so far.

Obligatory shots of Big Ben and standing in front of Big Ben with my visitors:

You can't live in London and not once go on the London Eye (Ok, you can...but I'm still a semi-tourist so I went anyway):

 

 Some of my favourite food places so far (the pictures are from The Delaunay):

 A quick visit to Portsmouth Harbour, those are (clockwise): the HMS Warrior, the HMS Victory and Admiral Nelson's cabin aboard the HMS Victory:

 A shot of the view from my flat at sunset and what I see on my daily commute to work (side note: I found out last week that my workplace - Charterhouse Square - is built on the site of a black death mass grave. They will be conducting an archaeological dig there later this year, what an equally fascinating and grim discovery!):

 Some random pictures of attractions I have visited over the past few weeks. They are (clockwise): The Natural History Museum, the Royal Institution of Great Britain which houses the singing periodic table, some friends and I at the Royal Institution, the Victoria & Albert Museum and some of my favourite pieces from the Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art.

And finally, the main reason that I don't miss Canada:

Instead of ending this blog post with a quote, I attach this great picture tweeted by SWAP earlier today:

Now's the Time

We shouldn't hide behind excuses. There are always a million reasons not to do something but just as many for why we should - we just don't make the same effort to see those ones for some reason. I thought this was well said:

Two Months Already!

Unbelievably, I have now been living in London for two months and it has flown by. Since I arrived, I have found a place to live with great flatmates (and a mouse visitor that we quickly evicted!), made new friends, cheered on Canada during the Olympics with 100 other Canadians at Leicester Square and found a permanent job with a great salary & perks. I can honestly say, even though it's only been two months, that this is the best thing I have ever done and I have absolutely no regrets. The only negative thing, in my view, is that I only have 22 months left here. I realize that I am probably still in the 'honeymoon phase' of this experience but I also know that it's up to me, and only me, to keep making it a good one.

I read this great blog post from a fellow BritBounder a few weeks ago and thought I would share it because, aside from being really funny, he made some good points about adjusting to life in London. You can access his blog by clicking here.

The two things he said that I really related to and agreed with are:

1. "when you move here you are going to be a new kind of broke, for many reasons"

2. "you are a foreigner in a buyers market, which puts you at a huge disadvantage in every aspect of life."

After two months of living here, I have decided to list some of my observations and the things I learned (in addition to the two above) in my time here so far. Here goes:

• Searching for a flat sucks. I'm not going to lie, it's a frustrating process but it's nice once you find a place. Once you have gone through it, take a look at this Buzzfeed post for a laugh.
• London shopping is amazing (and dangerous!), there are endless malls, shopping streets, websites with free shipping and cute little shops, it's hard not to get carried away (especially considering you will be broke - see #1 above).
• You will  have to get used to rejection (from jobs, flats, etc.) as it does happen a lot. When you think you've applied to enough jobs/flats, apply to 10 more.
• It's easy to meet people as you always have something to talk about (where you're from, why you're here, what you did back home and also answer the usual: Are Mounties real? Is it really that cold in Canada? If Canada's so great, why did you leave?)
• You will miss your family & friends but meeting new people and reminding yourself that you live in one of the most amazing cities in the world will help make up for it most of the time.
• Brits love their Nando's - they're everywhere! Also: curry. Oh and another fun fact: shawarmas are called 'kebabs" here.
• It's good to try to meet other people in the same situation as you - whether it's other SWAP/BritBounders or other Canadians in London.
• Grocery shopping is fun with all the different products here but, if you're like me, you'll miss things like Kraft Peanut Butter (even the one in the new packaging with the creepy bears).
• Everyone (or a lot of people) will call you 'love' or 'darling', it's so nice!
• You will feel like you're always drunk or tipsy! Brits sure know how to drink and they drink often. With so many old and interesting pubs around, it's hard to resist.
• Make time to enjoy London and to travel. It's easy to fall into a routine or to forget you live in a city with amazing (and free!) museums and countless other attractions. Now's the time to take advantage of being at Europe's door!
• You will drink more tea than you ever have in your life and you will love it more than ever. It helps that it almost always comes with a biscuit/cookie.
• No matter what you think, you will start to speak differently. At first it's only because you don't want to get laughed at anymore (e.g., 'pants' mean 'underwear' here, so you learn to say 'trousers' instead of 'pants') but then eventually 'thanks' becomes 'cheers', 'hi' becomes 'hiya', 'how are you?' becomes 'you alright?' and 'calendar' becomes 'diary', just to name a few.
• Eventually your love of the Tube will wear off (but only a little) and you will start taking the bus when you realize that it's much cheaper. The bus is actually nice because you get to see a lot more of London's less known sights and discover new neighbourhoods.
• Unexpected things will happen (for me, it's my landlord selling the flat I have finally settled into and love) and you will have to adjust. But remember that things like this could have happened at home or abroad - there's no difference.
• "English muffins" (obviously) are just called "muffins" here, I have yet to discover what "muffins" are called!
• An important thing that I learned, or rather that I changed about myself, is to accept every invitation that is extended to me, even if it's not something I really want to do or if I'm feeling a little tired/under the weather. This is how you meet people, make connections and learn new things. I think that this is probably the best thing that I have done since moving here and it's what allowed me to have what feels like a successful transition.

Finally, if I could say one thing about what I learned in London that I think is the most important, it would be this: nothing will go according to plan. No matter how prepared you are, life moves fast in London and most things won't go as planned. I like to look back at the plans I had made before leaving and at where I am now. Most of the things I had panned didn't happen but, looking back, I can see why and where they didn't happen and those are all good stories now. There's a Churchill quote that reflects how I feel about this, it also shows that I probably wouldn't make a very good politician! ...or would I?

Politics is the ability to foretell what is going to happen tomorrow, next week, next month and next year. And to have the ability afterwards to explain why it didn't happen.

Winston Churchill

So that's a (not-so-brief) summary of my perspective of life in London after two months. I'll try to do this again after six months or maybe a year to see if this has changed. It probably will but I look forward to many new discoveries along the way. What's next for me? Travel! But where to go first...

Crypt-ic Tea

Having been in London for over two weeks, I decided it was finally time to do something fun.  My first two weeks were really focused on finding a flat (done!) and a job (temporary but done!) so now I can finally relax and enjoy London.

For my first activity, given that this blog was in serious need of a picture of tea and crumpets (although a scone will do...), I decided to take my friend Justin's advice and visit St.-Martin-in-the-Fields  at Trafalgar Square for afternoon tea.  There is a cafe below the church where, for an affordable £5, you can get the afternoon tea plate which consists of: a scone, jam, clotted cream, a piece of chocolate cake, a piece of lemon cake and a pot of tea (or coffee...but it's afternoon TEA people...come on!).  I sat in the crypt for a good while, sheltered from the stormy winds and rain outside and read my book while enjoying these tasty treats.  Here are a few pictures just to give an idea of the cool setting (and how cute the meal was):

 

 After tea, I wandered around the Trafalgar Square/Leicester Square area for a bit, battling the crowds of tourists, until the storm really started.  Here are a few pictures of that including Canada House (yay!) and an inexplicable blue rooster:

 

To close things off this time, a quote about tea that I found really relevant given how I spent my afternoon:

You can't get a cup of tea big enough or a book long enough to suit me.

C.S. Lewis

Mind the Gap

I can't believe it's been almost two weeks since I arrived in London; what an adventure it's been already!  There have been a lot of ups and downs, often both in the same day.   In my last post I said that I wanted to have the following done before the end of that week:

• Attend the BritBound welcome meeting;
• Get a phone (I already received my O2 SIM card (and my Oyster card) from BritBound);
• Apply for jobs;
• Find a flat;
• Meet up with some contacts that were recommended to me;
• Do something fun like visiting a London attraction and try not to forget why I chose to come to London in the first place; and finally,
• Skype with my mom and prove that I'm safe and eating all my meals - wouldn't want her to worry!

Here's what I actually got done and some updates and/or advice for other future Swappers/BritBounders:

Attend the BritBound welcome meeting;

I did this on the first Friday I was here - it was a great information session with lots of useful tips and tricks that you wouldn't know otherwise.  We even had beer and snacks to cap off the night and most of the group went out afterwards (this being the perk of Friday welcome meetings vs. Wednesday welcome meetings).  As a funny side note, the group of BritBounders was pretty evenly split between Canadians and Aussies/Kiwis; the funny part being that Canadians were all wearing spring jackets and commenting about how warm it was while the folks from down under couldn't believe how "cold" it was (it was somewhere between 5 and 10 degrees celsius - definitely not your average Canadian January).  It's all a matter of perspective, I guess.

Get a phone;

I originally used the pay as you go chip provided by BritBound but I decided that, with the amount of data that I was consuming using maps alone on my phone (I got lost a LOT going for flat viewings), it would be best to go with an actual plan.  The great thing about UK providers (I went with O2), is that they never lock you into a plan, you can opt out at any time without any cancellation fees and you just have to pay what's left of your actual phone (if you didn't pay it all upfront) which is amazing - are you listening Rogers/Bell?

Apply for jobs;

I applied for dozens of jobs - anything I'm qualified for basically, and got an interview through one of the BritBound-posted jobs almost right away.  I'm happy to say I got the job and I start on Tuesday - this is a huge relief; while there are a lot of jobs in London, they do go fast and there is a lot of competition.  It's good to know I won't have to live on the streets!

Find a flat;

This has been the cause of a lot of grief for me over the past week and a  half.  The main issue being that the service offered through BritBound for fund transfers (from a Canadian bank account to a UK one) did not work for me.  Important note: if you are Canadian, you will not be able to transfer your money using Tranzfers if you are a Scotiabank customer.  Your best bet would be to open a Bank of Montreal account (Tranzfers deals exclusively with BMO) and transfer all your funds there before you leave Canada; an alternative option (although less safe but that I still wish I had done), would be to take your money with you in cash and deposit it into your UK bank account immediately.  The reason this caused so many problems for me is that I needed to provide a deposit to secure a flat (these deposits can be quite large if you are unemployed, which most Swappers/BritBounders are when they first arrive and are looking for a flat) and I wasn't able to provide this deposit given that I couldn't get the contents of my Canadian bank account here in time.  Second important lesson in flat hunting: flats go fast, faster than you would think.  Often, by the time I replied to an ad (maybe an hour after it was posted), it would be gone already.  This just reinforces my point about having access to your funds ASAP since you can't fully commit to a flat without paying the deposit.  I lost out on a few really great flats because of this; however, all's well that ends well, I found a good flat that is affordable (by London standards), central and that I share with two very nice flatmates.  On my first day here one of them offered me tea and biscuits, which I thought was very sweet and British, it was a great welcome.  My last tip when it comes to flats is that they usually come furnished but you need to get your own linens - Primark has become my new best friend.  They are conveniently located on Oxford Street (several locations) and sell all the essentials (e.g., pillows, sheets, blankets, coat hangers) for very cheap, in a variety of cute styles and colours; think of it as a kind of Target equivalent but with much cuter, affordable stuff.

Meet up with some contacts that were recommended to me;

I got in touch with my contacts when I got here and got some good leads on some job opportunities - it's always good to try to make connections, even if it's just to reassure you that you're doing things right.   The poor person I was put in touch with had to explain to me how to make calls in the UK because I found their 700 digit (slight exaggeration) phone numbers very confusing at first.  There are some things like crossing the street and making a phone call that I just wasn't used to and that were challenging when I first got here (even though I had been to London several times before).  I guess the key is to not be afraid to ask questions even if they feel like stupid questions at the time; there is an African proverb that I think applies here: "the one who asks questions, doesn't lose this way"; most people here in London are easily approachable and willing to help, all we have to do is ask.

Do something fun like visiting a London attraction and try not to forget why I chose to come to London in the first place;

Sadly, this is the only thing on the list that I haven't done yet.  It's been a busy week and also a very emotionally exhausting one.  All my free time was spent either visiting flats (my favourite story is that I visited a terrible flat in Notting Hill right above a fish monger - it smelled HORRIBLE and they had pot pourri on the steps all the way up to the fourth floor.  Somehow, the four rooms that were available in this building all got rented by the next day...this is a true testament to the demand for London flats).  Now that I have a place to live and a job, I commit to spending some time enjoying London sights and attractions.  More to come on this in my next blog post.

Skype with my mom and prove that I'm safe and eating all my meals - wouldn't want her to worry!

Oh, Skype we did.  I subjected my poor mom (and my dad) to tons of Skype conversations (or "freak outs" rather) where I was panicking and not knowing what to do.  What should have been an internal monologue became very vocal and prolonged.  Everything worked out though and I'm pretty sure they're as relieved as I am that I found a place to live and a job.

Another thing that may seem insignificant to most but that I am very proud of is that I took a London city bus to get around.  While the tube is amazing, it gets expensive.  The busses are more confusing but more affordable.  After a lot of research and asking for a lot of advice, I took some busses to get around instead of the tube and I feel really proud of myself.  Now, I'm less scared of the bus and will try to take it more often - a nice thing about taking the bus is that (obviously) you are above ground and you get to see things on the route that you may not have known were there before.  Also, if you sit in the front seats on the upper floor of the bus, you feel like you're driving the bus...people actually rush up the stairs to get those seats.  

All in all, this has been a crazy week and a half.  As prepared as I thought I was, I did have moments where I wondered why I decided to do this in the first place and where I was tempted to give up and go home.  Now that things have settled down a bit and that the sense of urgency is gone, I'm happy I'm here and I feel like I'm already a stronger person for having made it this far.  I feel a lot more confident and I'm ready to tackle what comes next.  As usual, I will end this blog post with one of my favourite quotes that reflects how I feel at the end of this week:

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters in the end.

-Ursula K. Le Guin

Hello Goodbye Hello Goodbyyyyye

In my last few days in Canada, I visited all my favourite people and places, including a delicious meal/goodbye to poutine at Louis Pizza.  This place is truly an Ottawa staple and I'm glad I got a chance to eat the quintessential Canadian dish of poutine before leaving.  Here's a picture of the deliciousness:

Here is a shot of Montreal as I was leaving on the plane - Goodbye for Now, Canada!

More importantly, after months of waiting, I have finally arrived in London!  The adventure begins!  Despite the Canadian weather's best efforts to thwart my travel plans, I got here in one piece and without stress.  My flight was full but wonderful - while we were made to circle London for 10-15 minutes to wait for our turn to land, we got to see all of London's biggest attractions from the plane including the Thames, Tower Bridge, London Eye, Big Ben, etc.  I have to say that British Airways was amazing; they provided stellar service (like not charging me for my very much over weight suitcase) and I'm pretty sure that my flight attendant was Ben Kingsley's long lost twin.

When I arrived in London, I was greeted by a beautiful sunny morning followed by some traditional English weather (i.e., rain) but I expected nothing less - in fact, given that my last few days in Canada presented me with freezing rain and very cold weather, I'm relieved to be in a place above 10 degrees, rain or not.  Given that my suitcase was so heavy and I was so tired when I got to Heathrow, I decided to take a (very expensive) taxi to my temporary hotel.  My driver told me that I was very lucky since most people don't go back to work until next week, there was virtually no traffic, just nice sunshine.  He was also a very nice older British man and giving me all kinds of job and flat finding advice which I appreciated.

After I arrived at my temporary home, Studios 2 Let, I had a quick nap and then went to buy some groceries and walk around the neighbourhood a little bit.  Here are some pictures of my temporary flat in Cartwright Gardens, just because I think it's cute:

Now that I have everything I need, the real work begins.  I have to find a flat and apply for jobs, en masse.  The plan is to lock myself in my room for a few days and take advantage of the free wi-fi to apply for jobs. 

On Friday I will attend a BritBound welcome meeting and hopefully work out a few last details like how to get a national insurance number, set up a bank account, etc.  Basically, my to do list for this week includes:

• Attend the BritBound welome meeting;
• Get a phone (I already received my O2 SIM card (and my Oyster card) from BritBound);
• Apply for jobs;
• Find a flat;
• Meet up with some contacts that were recommended to me;
• Do something fun like visiting a London attraction and try not to forget why I chose to come to London in the first place; and finally,
• Skype with my mom and prove that I'm safe and eating all my meals - wouldn't want her to worry!

I'll write again once I have accomplished at least some of the things on this list - stay tuned!