The few and the many

On this 70^th anniversary of VE (Victory in Europe) Day, I felt it was appropriate to write about recent developments in my life and, more to the point, my recent travels.

First, I’m happy to report that the tough times are over and that Dan and I are still happily living in our flat in Notting Hill and that we are now both employed! I think it might be good to note for future Swappers or anyone planning to move to the UK that the norm is to be paid monthly, usually at the end of the month. You do learn to adjust to this even if, like me, you were used to being paid every two weeks; however, it’s good to keep in mind that when you start a new job, you may not get paid for a month or even longer depending on what time of the month you start your job. This is just another reason why having savings (more than you think you’ll need) is very useful and maybe even necessary! It did take a long time for Dan to find this job (about 3 months) but this isn’t uncommon. While there are obviously a lot of jobs in a big city like London, there is also a lot of competition! I found that it is important not to get discouraged and to keep trying and adapting your applications to suit what employers are asking for. It’s always good to ask for feedback when you get rejected and ask how you can improve. I think this was a good strategy for Dan and he succeeded in finding a job he really enjoys.

Second, my dad and his girlfriend came to London for a visit last week and then we all travelled to France. While we did take the time to enjoy some tasty French food and wine along the way, we spent the majority of our time in Normandy visiting WWI and WWII sites such as Vimy Ridge, Juno Beach, Ste Mere Eglise & the Airborne Museum and some military cemeteries. The majority of our visit was very solemn and I think we all developed a deeper-than-ever respect for the men and women who selflessly fought for the freedoms, rights and liberties we enjoy every day and who helped shape our world into what is it today. I am grateful than ever and am remembering them today, on this anniversary of VE Day.

In London, we visited the usual suspects like Big Ben, Buckingham Palace and the Tower of London but we also visited the lesser known Churchill War Rooms. This is one of my favourite museums in London. Essentially, the bunker was sealed at the end of WWII and only reopened as a museum in the 1980s. This means that everything is as it was on the day the war ended; think coffee cups, cigars, litter but also, more interestingly, maps where Allied and German positions were marked based on best guesses. Here are a few pictures from London and the war rooms:

In Normandy, we started our visit at Vimy Ridge (I encourage everyone to read about Vimy Ridge if you don’t know the full story, it is fascinating), a WWI site of great importance to Canadians as it is the first time that Canadians fought together as one and defeated the Germans in a very difficult battle. We were fortunate to see the stunning and enormous monument and then we went for a (free!) guided tour of the trenches, underground bunkers and tunnels/subway systems. Here are a few pictures from Vimy Ridge:

We also stopped by a lovely fishing town called Honfleur for lunch. It had a wonderful Normandy small-town vibe and could only have been improved by better weather. I would definitely recommend stopping here if you find yourself in Normandy.

We then travelled west and stationed ourselves in Caen from where, over the next couple of days, we visited Juno Beach, the Canadian beach on D-Day. We also visited Ste Mere Eglise (of Band of Brothers fame) which was the first French town liberated during the Battle of Normandy.

And we visited a Canadian WWI war cemetery, a German WWII war cemetery and a Commonwealth (mostly Britiish) WWII war cemetery. IT was emotional to see the amount of graves in each cemetery and to read the personal messages on some of them. Personally, I was touched by the grave of a 21 year old Canadian soldier from Ottawa.

I think visiting significant historical sites such as the ones above is something everyone should do at least once in their life. It puts things in perspective and makes us appreciate what we have, which we sometimes forget to do. In closing, I leave one of my favourite war-time quotes:

“Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed by so many to so few.”

Winston Churchill

Highs and Lows

In order for this blog to be as realistic and truthful as possible, I realised that it's important for me to write about all the good times (as I have been doing) but also about the more challenging ones. The last month has been a bit of a nightmare and I thought I should post about it.

The flat I moved into in October was always meant to be a temporary flat since my boyfriend was moving to London to be with me in January and we were going to get our own place. To keep a long story short, my landlady decided that Dan and I had to be out of the flat by the end of January (when it was supposed to be the end of February). Flat hunting in London is extremely competitive and stressful enough as it is but with this short a timeframe it became even worse than we expected. We also kept getting rejected by landlords because they kept telling us that they would prefer to have a single tenant versus a couple (despite their ads stating that they were fine with having a couple rent a room) which was incredibly frustrating. As the weeks flew by, we became increasingly stressed and worried that we wouldn't find a flat in time. After lowering our standards and widening our search area, we finally found a place to live in Notting Hill. We have been living here for a few week now and we couldn't be happier. 

As a funny story, when I first moved to London in January 2014, I visited a flat in Notting Hill that was right above a fish mongers and smelled awful. There were also 7 other people living in the flat, which hadn't been expressed in the ad. Needless to say I didn't move there. But, believe it or not, when Dan and I were visiting flats a few weeks ago, we went into this building in Notting Hill right above a fish mongers and as I was starting to get flashbacks of January 2014, I realised that we were visiting the exact same flat I saw a year ago! Again, this isn't where we moved but I found it really funny that I have now seen this horrible flat twice!

I think the best advice I can give for anyone looking for a flat in London (which I will remind myself of if I need to search for a flat/room again) is:

1. Rent from an agency or make sure that you have an official contract with your landlord so that they can't just evict you without a reason - it protects both you and the landlord and is definitely the way to go (despite occasional agency fees).
2. Expand your search beyond what you know. I hadn't looked for flats in this area before because I didn't know the area but it's actually a wonderful, lively and quirky neighbourhood and I like it more than any of my previous ones.
3. Websites like Spareroom are great and definitely help with the search. There were a few ads on the site that I thought were a bit too good to be true and sure enough, Spareroom emailed me after I tried to respond to the ads to let me know that they had determined it was a scam. It helps to know that they are taking safety seriously.

Now that the stressor of finding a flat is gone, we can focus on enjoying our new neighbourhood. We have already found a few wonderful pubs and gastropubs in the area and even some that serve Sunday roasts - I'm definitely happy about that!

All that's left on our to-do list at the moment is for Dan to find a job. Almost exactly like flat hunting, job searching in London is extremely competitive. He had to leave his job in Portsmouth when he moved to London and, now that we're not homeless, he's looking for a job in London. It has been difficult for him and I remember being in the same position a year ago when I moved here. I think that the best strategy is to cast a wide net and apply to all kinds of jobs, any that you are qualified for basically and see what comes of it. I have always said that it's easiest to find a job when you already have one. It’s also good to manage your expectations; for example, one job that Dan applied for had 11,000 other applicants! We know what the competition is like so we’re putting as much effort as possible into each application and now we’re keeping our fingers crossed that he finds a job soon and that it will be a job he enjoys!

Now, as if flat hunting and looking for jobs wasn't enough, my grandmother passed away a week ago. I decided I wanted to go home for her funeral and I wanted to be with my family so I travelled back to Ottawa in very cold February (it was -45!). The flight was outrageously priced but it was worth going home and I am happy that I was able to do so. I had heard that there were discounts/refunds on flights when you are travelling for bereavement reasons but I did not get any support from Air Canada when I phoned them. This is something that had been brought up a lot on the Canadians in the UK Facebook page so I had built up an expectation but it looks like there’s no such thing. I suppose that, for this reason, it’s probably wise to keep some savings (even though it’s tempting to spend a lot in a city like London) for unforeseen events like this one. It’s hard enough to deal with the death of a relative but doing so when you’re living abroad can make it more difficult. I feel that if you are able to go home at a time like this, you probably should. In an effort to bring a little happiness to my Ottawa visit, I did go to Winterlude with my dad and had a tasty beavertail, I lost when playing Roll up the Rim at Tim Horton’s, I ate some delicious poutine (a must!) and I spent some time with my family, remembering my amazing grandparents. Here are a few pictures of my Ottawa visit:

My mom always says that bad things come in threes. I think with (1) horrible flat hunting, (2) a very daunting job search and (3) a funeral, we've covered all three! Now bring on the happy and fun times!  So now we will focus on exploring Notting Hill, getting to know our new flatmates (it's a very international house with two Italians, two Spaniards, a Canadian and a Brit!) and enjoying living together in London.

All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.

Walt Disney

What a year!

As of today it has been exactly a year since I arrived in London. I’m feeling a mixture of pride, disbelief (that’s it’s already been a year!), sadness that half my time here has already gone by but also optimism for the year ahead. What a year it’s been; I haven’t travelled quite as much as I had expected/hoped to (London is a very expensive city to live in!) but I still managed to travel to Wales, Ireland, France, Germany, Belgium, Scotland and a few random places/towns around England so that’s not too bad.

First, a few pictures of what I’ve been up to over the holidays. In December, Dan and I went to Bruges with BritBound to see one of Europe’s famous Christmas markets. I was a little disappointed by the market since I had been looking at pictures of Berlin and Prague’s markets before going and Bruges is tiny but it is still a charming little town and we had a good time. Here are a few pictures of 1) the ferry crossing to France, 2) Bruges town square (where the market is) and 3) the best thing about Belgium: food (especially chocolate) and beer!

I love London at Christmas time – from the iconic Harrods all lit up to the cute shop decorations. It also turns out that London has its own Christmas market in Hyde Park (amongst many others) called Winter Wonderland. We went to this market and it is basically a Christmas version of Oktoberfest – it was great! I also used it as an opportunity to proudly display my Canada mittens!

I was lucky enough to have some of my family come visit me in London this Christmas and we went on a tour of Scotland (Edinburgh, Highlands & Inverness) for Christmas. This was a Haggis Adventures tour and it was really great: very well organized, fantastic guide/driver and all-around good fun! This is my second Haggis Adventures tour and I really recommend them for anyone wanting to visit Scotland in a fun and affordable way. They also have these cute little busses but sometimes, there are creepers on the bus (note: this may only be when my brother is on board):

So we started off in Edinburgh:

Then moved up in the Scottish Highlands through two national parks, around Loch Ness, stopped by the Culloden memorial site and up to Inverness:

And we had a lovely Christmas dinner at the Royal Highland Hotel (famous for its Royal visitors and the staircase that inspired the one in Titanic) in Inverness which included a haggis, neeps & taties starter (delicious!):

And we even got to visit some of my favourites: Hairy Coos!

It was a great trip with very scenic views and good Scottish fun. We eventually make our way back to London in time for the new year where my mom and I went for posh afternoon tea at The Dorchester:

And we celebrated New Year’s Eve in style after a visit to Nobu where I had the best meal of my life. I had delicious tuna tacos (not pictured), Wagyu beef and this chocolate tart for dessert that started out as a chocolate ball but after hot chocolate was poured on it (at the table), it melted into a tart – so cool! I have eaten at some great restaurants in my life but this is by far the best meal I have ever had. I now need to save up my pennies and go back soon!

Finally, since I have now spent a year living in London, I thought I would list my advice for the top ten things to do when moving abroad:

1. Get an iPhone

I have never been a big Apple fan but the iPhone has lots of great apps like CityMapper (which has saved me so many times), Whatsapp, Skype and FaceTime which make it easy (and free!) to stay in touch with people from back home. It was a big expense for me but definitely worth it.

2. Network

I am a relatively shy person and it’s hard for me to push myself to meet new people but this was part of this experience. Groups like BritBound and Meetups are the perfect place to meet new people when you move abroad by yourself and most people in those groups are in the exact same situation so I felt that this made it a little easier. I feel that it’s important to meet people or this experience wouldn’t be the same.

3. Make time to call home

It’s easy when your life starts picking up to forget to call your family/friends but I found that it’s been worth making the time for it (even though I’m still not doing it enough). Whether it’s for moral support, a good chat or, more importantly, to order more supplies of stuff only found in Canada, it is important and I will do it more this year.

4. Travel every chance you get

As I said before, I came here hoping to travel more but it’s important to continuously budget for holidays. While travelling within Europe may seem cheap compared to travelling from Canada, travel expenses still add up and it’s good to budget to make the most of it. I have started savings jars that I hope will help with more European city breaks in 2015!

5. Join discount sites

Shortly after I got here I signed up to free websites like TimeOut, Amazon Local and Groupon and started receiving daily email deals for restaurants, theatre tickets, tourist attractions, shops, etc. The discounts are usually very good and it’s definitely worth taking the time to scroll through a few emails every day.

6. See shows!

London is a great place to see theatre, musicals, ballets, operas, orchestras, etc. Using the websites I mentioned above you can easily find discounted tickets and I try to remind myself once in a while to go see some world-class shows! So far I have seen Les Misérables (a few times…it’s my favourite), Wicked, The Nutcracker and Miss Saigon. I missed out on seeing Richard III starring Martin Freeman (I heard mixed reviews anyway) and I’m determined to get tickets to Hamlet starring Benedict Cumberbatch next fall. Coming up, I have tickets to the Zelda Symphony of the Goddesses and the Doctor Who Symphonic Spectacular which I’m excited for. I would also like to see another ballet and an opera too.

7. Write about your experiences

I have found that writing entries in this blog can be therapeutic but it also reminds me of all the things I have done. Even this entry now, if I wasn’t taking the time to write this, I wouldn’t have fully realized how much I have done over the past year and how amazing it’s been! It can also be nice to re-read some of my past entries which brings back memories of what I was going through at the time.

8. Pack light

London has everything and more that you can every need. I think that there is no need to pack things like towels, laundry bags and random accessories as some blogs/websites suggest. It’s easier to arrive here with a lighter bag and buy everything you need once here. There are affordable places like Primark and Argos that have very low prices, even in London. I now regret dragging my super heavy suitcase around everywhere when I first arrived.

9. Talk to the locals

I have found that people love to talk about their neighbourhoods and things that they love. It’s easy to start up a conversation with “I’m not from here, do you have any advice on what to do?” since people almost always have something to say. People often volunteer travel advice/things to do when they hear my accent and realize that I’m not from around here so it’s also a good way to meet people.

10. Just do it already!

This, I think, is my best piece of advice. Stop being scared of what could go wrong and take the plunge. I believe that, as long as you keep an open mind, this type of adventure can only be a success. To cap things off, as always, a quote that touches on this last point:

Life is what you make it. Always has been, always will be.

Eleanor Roosevelt

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

It’s been a while since I last wrote and fall has come and gone in London. While this typically means more rain (and then lots more for winter!), it was still wonderful to see the fall colours around the city. Here are a few pictures of autumn:

What have I been up to these past few months? Well, September was a busy month as my friend Jen visited and we went out exploring quite a bit. First, we went for fancy afternoon tea at Brown’s Hotel. It was very luxurious and everything tasted amazing – definitely worth the expense.

Second, we went on a day trip to Oxford, Stratford (where we visited the house Shakespeare grew up in) and Warwick Castle. It was great to get out of London for a day and see the English countryside. I think living in London has made me forget that there is so much to see and do outside the city.

Third, we travelled to Munich, Germany for Oktoberfest. That was quite an adventure and great fun. I definitely recommend everyone go at least once in their life. It’s a rich cultural event and not only about the drinking (although the delicious beer and food are a big part of it). We also had an opportunity to visit the former Dachau Concentration Camp while we were there and that was a very solemn and somewhat overwhelming experience. Again, this is something that everyone should do. We all learn about war and other atrocities in school but it’s quite a different thing to see it in person. It definitely made me realize how lucky I am to have been born in Canada and made me appreciate even more the rights and liberties that come along with it (I love you Charter of Rights and Freedoms!). On a happier note, this was my first trip organized through BritBound and I was very impressed. Everything was very well organized and we had a blast. I will definitely be participating in future BritBound travels (including the trip to Bruges in December!).

October was a bit of an emotional month for me as there was a tragedy in Ottawa which made international news; a soldier who was guarding the war memorial was shot and killed and the gunman then terrorized the city for hours while he hid in the Parliament. I was glued to the news for a couple of days as I watched the events unfold and it was difficult to be far away from home when something like that was happening only a couple of blocks away from where I used to live and work. I’m happy and grateful my family and friends are all safe and hope that something like this never happens again. I saw this the day after the shooting and just have to share it because I think it’s simply amazing:

In October I also moved into my new flat and I’m happy to say that it’s going great. Here are a few pictures of my new neighbourhood: Finsbury Park. I definitely find it more “British” than where I used to live. As a side note, it is unbelievable the amount of stuff I have managed to gather (hoard?) in my short time here. I’m also including a picture of Dan looking less than impressed at all the stuff he has to help me move (this is only some of it!).

November has really flown by. A quick yet quick visit from my friend Breanne

and I also had a chance to see the poppies at the Tower of London which was a great experience. This was in honour of the 100^th anniversary of WWI.

The fact that winter is coming (insert corny Game of Thrones joke here) means that Christmas isn’t far off either! I love Christmas and I am especially excited for Christmas this year as it means that my mom, my brother and his girlfriend are visiting and we are going to Scotland. While snow isn’t very common in London, there is a (small) chance that there will be snow in the Scottish Highlands for Christmas. I have to say, I will be a little disappointed if there is no snow on Christmas eve/Christmas morning. Speaking of snow, it snowed for a whole 2 minutes this week. Like all of the other people on the street, I snapped a picture as quick as I could (after I stopped squealing with delight and running around like a person who’s never seen snow before). While we got a few flurries here, people were quick to send me pictures of what it looked like back home – I definitely don’t miss that!

My next post will likely be after Christmas since I will have pictures of the Bruges Christmas Markets and Scotland to share. London has already started to “Christmasize” which is getting me really excited. The smell of hot cider and mulled wine is in the air and there was even a real reindeer in Covent Garden the other day!

So, for those of you reading this: Merry Christmas and thanks for reading along as I wrap up a wonderful first year living in the UK. It has been an amazing year and I look forward to another great year ahead. As always, here is a quote to end the blog post:

Ho Ho Ho

Kris Kringle