Saturday, 18 January 2014

Mind the Gap


I can't believe it's been almost two weeks since I arrived in London; what an adventure it's been already!  There have been a lot of ups and downs, often both in the same day.   In my last post I said that I wanted to have the following done before the end of that week:

  • Attend the BritBound welcome meeting;
  • Get a phone (I already received my O2 SIM card (and my Oyster card) from BritBound);
  • Apply for jobs;
  • Find a flat;
  • Meet up with some contacts that were recommended to me;
  • Do something fun like visiting a London attraction and try not to forget why I chose to come to London in the first place; and finally,
  • Skype with my mom and prove that I'm safe and eating all my meals - wouldn't want her to worry!

Here's what I actually got done and some updates and/or advice for other future Swappers/BritBounders:

Attend the BritBound welcome meeting;
I did this on the first Friday I was here - it was a great information session with lots of useful tips and tricks that you wouldn't know otherwise.  We even had beer and snacks to cap off the night and most of the group went out afterwards (this being the perk of Friday welcome meetings vs. Wednesday welcome meetings).  As a funny side note, the group of BritBounders was pretty evenly split between Canadians and Aussies/Kiwis; the funny part being that Canadians were all wearing spring jackets and commenting about how warm it was while the folks from down under couldn't believe how "cold" it was (it was somewhere between 5 and 10 degrees celsius - definitely not your average Canadian January).  It's all a matter of perspective, I guess.

Get a phone;
I originally used the pay as you go chip provided by BritBound but I decided that, with the amount of data that I was consuming using maps alone on my phone (I got lost a LOT going for flat viewings), it would be best to go with an actual plan.  The great thing about UK providers (I went with O2), is that they never lock you into a plan, you can opt out at any time without any cancellation fees and you just have to pay what's left of your actual phone (if you didn't pay it all upfront) which is amazing - are you listening Rogers/Bell?

Apply for jobs;
I applied for dozens of jobs - anything I'm qualified for basically, and got an interview through one of the BritBound-posted jobs almost right away.  I'm happy to say I got the job and I start on Tuesday - this is a huge relief; while there are a lot of jobs in London, they do go fast and there is a lot of competition.  It's good to know I won't have to live on the streets!

Find a flat;
This has been the cause of a lot of grief for me over the past week and a  half.  The main issue being that the service offered through BritBound for fund transfers (from a Canadian bank account to a UK one) did not work for me.  Important note: if you are Canadian, you will not be able to transfer your money using Tranzfers if you are a Scotiabank customer.  Your best bet would be to open a Bank of Montreal account (Tranzfers deals exclusively with BMO) and transfer all your funds there before you leave Canada; an alternative option (although less safe but that I still wish I had done), would be to take your money with you in cash and deposit it into your UK bank account immediately.  The reason this caused so many problems for me is that I needed to provide a deposit to secure a flat (these deposits can be quite large if you are unemployed, which most Swappers/BritBounders are when they first arrive and are looking for a flat) and I wasn't able to provide this deposit given that I couldn't get the contents of my Canadian bank account here in time.  Second important lesson in flat hunting: flats go fast, faster than you would think.  Often, by the time I replied to an ad (maybe an hour after it was posted), it would be gone already.  This just reinforces my point about having access to your funds ASAP since you can't fully commit to a flat without paying the deposit.  I lost out on a few really great flats because of this; however, all's well that ends well, I found a good flat that is affordable (by London standards), central and that I share with two very nice flatmates.  On my first day here one of them offered me tea and biscuits, which I thought was very sweet and British, it was a great welcome.  My last tip when it comes to flats is that they usually come furnished but you need to get your own linens - Primark has become my new best friend.  They are conveniently located on Oxford Street (several locations) and sell all the essentials (e.g., pillows, sheets, blankets, coat hangers) for very cheap, in a variety of cute styles and colours; think of it as a kind of Target equivalent but with much cuter, affordable stuff.

Meet up with some contacts that were recommended to me;
I got in touch with my contacts when I got here and got some good leads on some job opportunities - it's always good to try to make connections, even if it's just to reassure you that you're doing things right.   The poor person I was put in touch with had to explain to me how to make calls in the UK because I found their 700 digit (slight exaggeration) phone numbers very confusing at first.  There are some things like crossing the street and making a phone call that I just wasn't used to and that were challenging when I first got here (even though I had been to London several times before).  I guess the key is to not be afraid to ask questions even if they feel like stupid questions at the time; there is an African proverb that I think applies here: "the one who asks questions, doesn't lose this way"; most people here in London are easily approachable and willing to help, all we have to do is ask.

Do something fun like visiting a London attraction and try not to forget why I chose to come to London in the first place;
Sadly, this is the only thing on the list that I haven't done yet.  It's been a busy week and also a very emotionally exhausting one.  All my free time was spent either visiting flats (my favourite story is that I visited a terrible flat in Notting Hill right above a fish monger - it smelled HORRIBLE and they had pot pourri on the steps all the way up to the fourth floor.  Somehow, the four rooms that were available in this building all got rented by the next day...this is a true testament to the demand for London flats).  Now that I have a place to live and a job, I commit to spending some time enjoying London sights and attractions.  More to come on this in my next blog post.

Skype with my mom and prove that I'm safe and eating all my meals - wouldn't want her to worry!
Oh, Skype we did.  I subjected my poor mom (and my dad) to tons of Skype conversations (or "freak outs" rather) where I was panicking and not knowing what to do.  What should have been an internal monologue became very vocal and prolonged.  Everything worked out though and I'm pretty sure they're as relieved as I am that I found a place to live and a job.

Another thing that may seem insignificant to most but that I am very proud of is that I took a London city bus to get around.  While the tube is amazing, it gets expensive.  The busses are more confusing but more affordable.  After a lot of research and asking for a lot of advice, I took some busses to get around instead of the tube and I feel really proud of myself.  Now, I'm less scared of the bus and will try to take it more often - a nice thing about taking the bus is that (obviously) you are above ground and you get to see things on the route that you may not have known were there before.  Also, if you sit in the front seats on the upper floor of the bus, you feel like you're driving the bus...people actually rush up the stairs to get those seats.  

All in all, this has been a crazy week and a half.  As prepared as I thought I was, I did have moments where I wondered why I decided to do this in the first place and where I was tempted to give up and go home.  Now that things have settled down a bit and that the sense of urgency is gone, I'm happy I'm here and I feel like I'm already a stronger person for having made it this far.  I feel a lot more confident and I'm ready to tackle what comes next.  As usual, I will end this blog post with one of my favourite quotes that reflects how I feel at the end of this week:

It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters in the end.
-Ursula K. Le Guin


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